When a guy finally asks a girl to be his girlfriend, it is important to ask her to be his valentine. This is because guys should always try to keep their girlfriends entertained and happy. It does not have to be elaborate. In this case it truly is the thought that counts.
When subtly hinting to my boyfriend that he should ask me to be his valentine, he laughed it off thinking I was joking. He eventually understood I was not joking when I kept hinting about it. He asked me shortly after.
A note and some effort is all that is needed to make your girlfriend happy. Even if you do not think guys should have to ask their girlfriend to be their valentine, as long as they want to be asked, it should happen.
I have heard the analogy, would you ask your mom to be your mother on Mother’s Day, and while this does create a good argument, it is not a valid analogy. This is because Mother’s Day is more about appreciation whereas Valentine’s Day is more about love.
People can say that Valentine’s Day is also about appreciation, but the reason for Valentine’s Day is for celebrating romance and love, and Mother’s Day is to bring recognition to mothers and honor them.
Valentine’s Day is one of the most important days for boyfriends to show up and show their love for their girlfriends.
Couples celebrate each holiday differently. The most important thing is to compromise and find what works best for the couple. It should be a normal thing to have the guy ask the girl to be his valentine.