Although many people believe that long distance may be detrimental to a loving relationship, I believe that it actually can be very beneficial. A few months ago I went from a 30 minute relationship distance to a three hour distance. I would consider this a medium distance but I believe that the pros and cons I will be discussing relate to both long and medium distance relationships. While entering a long distance relationship can be frightening, if both people prioritize communication I believe the relationship can be successful. 

When starting long distance, the biggest fear usually is that distance would cause drifting apart. At first it may be difficult with adjusting and busy schedules, but over time it will get easier and you will feel connected with your partner again. It is essential to remain honest and open about how you feel adjusting to long distance with your partner. It may be hard at first but trust and communication are essential when starting long distance.

Distance can make it hard to have personal time with your partner. You no longer have the option of going out to dinner, going on a walk, or watching a movie. Some people may hear this and think it sounds impossible. I also thought it was impossible until I learned about all the fun things you can do with your long distance partner. Some examples are eating the same food over facetime, having a show to watch together some nights, or a simple call about your day. There really are endless options when it comes to long distance romance.

Long distance relationships can be challenging and you will struggle at times, but ultimately it is not worth giving up on a loving relationship when distance is added between you. Despite what you may hear, it is completely possible to have a happy and thriving long distance relationship.